For more than two decades, Dr. Mary Romano has spent her career helping young people navigate complex health challenges. As an Associate Professor of Pediatrics at Vanderbilt University Medical Center and Monroe Carell Jr. Children’s Hospital, she has dedicated her professional life to caring for patients and guiding families through difficult seasons.
In 2023, a breast cancer diagnosis forced a sudden, disorienting role reversal.
After her diagnosis, Mary began a treatment journey that included surgery, chemotherapy, and radiation. While her medical training helped her understand the road ahead, it also brought a heightened awareness of the uncertainties and challenges that cancer treatment can bring.
“I am a physician, so it was incredibly challenging to be on that side of the doctor-patient relationship,” she shared. “Knowledge is a blessing and a curse.”
The Invisible Challenge of “Going Back to Normal”
While Mary managed to keep up with her demanding job throughout her treatments, the true challenge emerged after the clinical interventions ended. To the outside world, she seemed to be doing remarkably well.
“The return to work and ‘going back to normal’ was definitely harder than expected,” Mary shares. “It was something I felt others didn’t realize was happening, since I seemed ‘fine’ for the most part.”
Like many survivors, she discovered that returning to work and everyday routines was difficult. Her medical appointments became less frequent, but the effects of treatment remained. That experience helped her recognize something many survivors face: finishing treatment does not automatically mean recovery is complete.
Rebuilding Strength with Personalized Support
Mary wanted to regain her strength, balance, and flexibility, but she found herself struggling to return to the gym on her own. She wanted to get back into a routine, but she needed a dedicated space to process what her body had been through.
As Mary described her frustrations with her plastic surgeon, she recognized exactly what was missing and recommended Survivor Fitness.
“I knew I needed something else to move forward and past treatment,” Mary says. “I hadn’t really utilized any resources like this before and, honestly, I figured, why not!”
Starting the program allowed Mary to pause and acknowledge that her recovery was an ongoing process. Working one-on-one with a personal trainer provided a structured environment where she could safely focus on recovering her strength, balance, and flexibility.
In many ways, Survivor Fitness also gave Mary permission to acknowledge something she had been pushing through for months.
“Survivor Fitness allowed me to pause and recognize that I was still recovering and that I still needed help to move forward,” she said. “Perhaps not to return to normal, but at least to feel more like myself.”
That shift in perspective helped her focus less on getting back to who she was before cancer and more on building strength for the future.
Grace, Time, and Patience
Today, Mary encourages other cancer survivors to be patient with themselves and to accept support when it’s offered.
“I would tell them to give themselves grace, time, and patience,” she said. “To ask for help and utilize resources when offered. You can never have too much help or too much support.”
Her experience also reinforced the importance of ongoing survivorship resources.
“Having the awareness and acknowledgment of the need for ongoing support and resources for survivors is important, no matter how far out you get from treatment and how ‘okay’ you seem to others.”
Our team at Survivor Fitness couldn’t agree more. We’re grateful that Mary trusted us to be part of her journey and thankful for the reminder that strength isn’t always about pushing through alone.
Are you ready to stop trying to force yourself “back to normal” and start moving forward on your own terms?
Whether you are navigating the physical side effects of treatment or trying to manage the mental transition back to everyday life, Survivor Fitness is here to support you with one-on-one fitness training, nutritional coaching, and mental health support.
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