The battle with cancer can feel incredibly lonely, even after treatment is over. For many survivors, recovery comes with new challenges that are hard to face alone. But in the midst of these struggles, there are moments of hope and opportunities for deep, meaningful friendships.
This has been the experience of Michael Burke, a participant in Survivor Fitness. Through his journey, Michael found the strength to keep going and important connections that have made a lasting impact on his life.
Living with the Side Effects: Michael’s Ongoing Battle
Michael’s journey with cancer began in 2018 when he was diagnosed with prostate cancer. The initial surgery in 2019 was minimal and, unfortunately, ineffective. By 2021, he underwent a full radical prostatectomy. However, within 18 months, the cancer had metastasized, spreading to his lymph nodes and pelvic bones. After receiving nine weeks of radiation, Michael was placed on a double-dose hormone medication that carried the added risk of bone fractures.
While the radiation treatment lasted only nine weeks, the battle continued for Michael nearly two years later. He remains on the hormone medication, which has significantly impacted his mood, leading to increased depression and impatience. The physical toll was also severe, with excruciating pain in his hands and wrists, heightened sensitivity in his teeth, and persistent hot flashes—occurring every 15 minutes, even today.
Though these physical side effects have been challenging, Michael admits the hardest part has been finding the motivation to keep going each day. Getting out of bed, facing the physical pain, and not giving up became daily hurdles.
A Turning Point: Connecting with Survivor Fitness
Following his radiation treatments, Michael knew he needed help. Understanding that exercise could be a crucial part of both his physical and mental recovery, he began researching trainers who specialized in working with cancer patients. That’s when he stumbled upon Survivor Fitness.
“I knew if I was going to survive this, I needed help, and I knew physical exercise would help me both physically and mentally. Finding the Survivor Fitness website was invaluable.”
Michael recalls how emotional he felt when he first learned about Survivor Fitness.
“When I found the site and read the mission, it brought me to tears. I honestly couldn’t believe that Survivor Fitness existed. It was exactly what I needed.”
Shortly after, Michael was connected with Personal Best Fitness in Brentwood, TN. There, he began working with his trainer, Jordyn Faulks.
Michael started meeting with Jordyn twice a week. After his initial Survivor Fitness sessions ended, he continued working with her, finding in Jordyn not just a trainer but a true source of support and accountability.
“I was so tempted to call in sick and not show up,” Michael admits. “But I quickly realized how important it was for my mental and physical health to show up. Working out twice a week and discussing nutrition helped me have accountability and adopt more healthy habits.”
The impact of his sessions with Jordyn was immediate. Michael noticed improvements in his physical strength and in his ability to cope with the emotional challenges of his ongoing hormone treatment. Nearly two years later, he continues to train with Jordyn, and the benefits are undeniable.
“It’s the best thing I did because not only has it strengthened my bones, preventing fractures, but it’s also been my constant social time that has kept my mood and spirits up. I’m so grateful for Survivor Fitness, and especially for my friendship with Jordyn.”
Building Bonds Beyond Fitness
For Michael, the workouts have been beneficial for his mental and physical well-being. However, beyond the exercise, it has been the social connection that has made the biggest impact. As someone who worked remotely, Michael’s opportunities for social interaction were limited, especially during and after treatment. The two hours a week he spent with Jordyn became a vital part of his recovery.
“Jordyn has become a great friend, and I am convinced that between her and Olivia Fazini (another trainer at the gym), they have quite literally kept me alive.”
The bond between Michael and Jordyn extends beyond the gym. Both fans of Taylor Swift, they attended her Eras Tour concert together in May 2023, which came at a particularly low point in Michael’s struggle with depression. The concert turned out to be a transformative experience.
“It helped me so much. It was such an amazing, joyful concert with 70,000+ people all singing for over three hours. The boost has sustained me over the past year and a half, and it was a great bonding experience to share with Jordyn.”
For Michael, the friendships that have developed with Jordyn, Olivia, and others at Personal Best Fitness have been one of the greatest gifts of his cancer journey. They’ve taught him a valuable lesson about the importance of connection, particularly during difficult times.
“Many of us who are introverts tend to step away from our family and friends when we’re hurting physically and mentally, but I’m learning it’s exactly what I need. It’s so easy to get in our heads and think that we can’t go on another day, but there are so many people who want to help—they just need you to ask.”
Get Connected with the Survivor Fitness Community
Michael’s journey through cancer has been anything but easy, but through Survivor Fitness, he found newfound physical strength and deep friendships that have sustained him emotionally. His story is a testament to the power of community and the impact that meaningful connections can have on the road to recovery.
At Survivor Fitness, Michael discovered more than just a workout plan—he found hope, accountability, and the kind of friendship that makes all the difference. If you are a cancer survivor seeking hope and support after treatment or know someone who is, we invite you to learn more about our programs and how we can help you reclaim your strength. Reach out with questions or apply today to take the first step towards a healthier and happier future.
